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Orgasm is the most honest energy in the world

Orgasm is the most honest energy in the world. Today I felt sexually shy. Could’ve been where I’m at in my cycle… Or where we’re at in connection… Doesn’t matter. It just felt true. Aroused, definitely aroused. But aroused like a virgin. Turned on in my...

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I praise each and every one of you reading this…

I praise each and every one of you here. Every soul matters. Every comment. Every like. Every share. Every save. Every message. Even if I can’t keep up with them all. I see you. I receive you. I pray for you. (And I’ve been praying for you, long before you showed up...

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That jungle initiation was NO. JOKE…

That jungle initiation was NO. JOKE…. ⚡️🐉🌬🌊 Looking back at the fullness of Saturday, I could feel the intensity from the moment I woke up… 6am in Boulder Colorado… I wake up for a day of travel with full on...

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On quantum expansion

On quantum expansion- Without the liberated expression of your soul’s essence… access to prosperity is limited. The quantum field that surrounds you… Pouring thought forms and beliefs… Is limited… When you dim your light.. When you only...

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The energetics of financial success

The energetics of financial success are so deliciously nuanced… It’s in every move that you make. The way you eat matters. The way you fuck. The way you swim. The way you receive….. Every. Single. Moment. Counts. When the quantum is always listening.. You...

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The money is always “worth it”

The money is always “worth it” – and you KNOW with every fiber of your being – that it is “worth it” – because it makes the moment (or your life) feel easeful, pleasurable, expansive, peaceful, or beaming with vitality. And you don’t have to think...

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Serve at the rhythm of your body

Serve at the rhythm of your body because the true legacy is the one you leave in your heart… 🤍 I know. There is so much you want to create. So much you could give to serve the world. Sometimes I look at the content that lives in me… And I think...

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THIS is the deepest work of my life…

THIS is the deepest work of my life… On a call with one of my clients today, she says: “I see you. You spend a looooottttt of time alone.” I was surprised by how touched + recognized I felt by such a sentence. But here’s why it touched me 👇🏼 You...

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“I make millions naked”….

“I make millions naked” OMG!!!!!! I just passed the million dollar mark for the first trimester of the year… 😱🥂🤤💦🔥.. Naked… in bed… sexting my love… grinding it in…….. Holy....

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The only thing stopping me was me…

The only thing stopping me was me…

Everything changed when I realized the only thing stopping me was me. It wasn’t society. It wasn’t my parents. It wasn’t my circle of friends. It wasn’t because others had luck and I didn’t. It wasn’t because there was something wrong with me. It wasn’t my body, my...

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Launching as shadow work

Offering your soul’s work in the world is no joke. You are putting yourself out there for everyone to see. To love. To meet. And you are saying… “This matters.” And- “Pay me for it” 😜 It’s a huge deal!!!!! And it brings up all of the parts of you...

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“Not yet darling, I want you hungrier…”

“Not yet darling, I want you hungrier…”

Entering Her too soon is one of the many masterful seeds of ~fuckery~ to polarity. She lets it happen… But he is the one who does it… He is the one who holds the key… And what happens is that all of her masculine walls go up. She now has to protect her temple.. She...

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On the power of being power hungry…

On the power of being power hungry…

I am power hungry, and oh baby I own it… I live for discovering parts to my power I have disowned… Healing threads and lineages as I walk… When I unravel pockets of power, I can transmit a message with my eyes. I can dismantle a projection in an instant. I can breathe...

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The dimension of financial freedom

There’s a dimension where you don’t have to get permission from money to live your life. You don’t have to look into your bank account and go- “Uhmmmm…. but wait…… is this smart? Can I afford it? Will I lose money?” This dimension… I have...

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Love is the purpose

Love is the purpose

Love is the purpose. “Purpose comes first for the masculine, then relationship.” Just a little note on this… Passing on a seed… Because this chapter is coming to a close… The chapter where we put anything over love… The chapter where men think its more masculine to...

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I took it off and left it on the beach…

I took it off and left it on the beach. This damn bathing suit… I bought it on a day I felt bloated… And then the first day I wore it, all the negative self talk was alive as ever. It felt like my shadow was having a play party ;)… a whirlwind of emotion, that I met....

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Live a life worth teaching

Live a life worth teaching

You become an expert when you live a life worth teaching. I thought I needed another certification… I blamed my lack of success on that… And the fact that I was only 23 years old… But the funny thing was- I never felt drawn to any coaching certification. And my old...

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He has me on my knees…

He has me on my knees…

He has me on my knees And- I’m not pretending to follow a direction or playing a role in a scene. He has me falling limp lusting for his touch on. my. knees. because he loves me enough to let my power meet his he loves me enough without backing down from intensity he...

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The feminine seeks FULLNESS

The feminine seeks FULLNESS

The female anatomy teaches us everything about the feminine inside of us all. She seeks FULLNESS 🤍🙌🏼✨ And as infinite as the space is inside of the womb, infinite is the longing she desires to fulfill. So she goes on the journey....

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Why understanding your motives is key

Why understanding your motives is key

The more you understand your motives, the more powerful you become. The less programmed you become. The more honest you become. The less influenced you become. The more raw you become. The less societal you become. The more wildly liberated you become....

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Do you sabotage love?

Do you sabotage love?

You stop playing into any energetics of revenge in relationship when you recognize that it’s only an unconscious attempt to hurt yourself. Awakened and embodied, the other person IS you. At a certain point, it’s no theory. You feel their heart as yours. One of the...

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What it means to be an awakened woman

What it means to be an awakened woman

Real courage is withstanding your own half hearted shadow, walking through the trenches of self denial, and dropping everything to play inside the portal of love. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 🗝⚔️🕯 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Real connection is excruciating ecstasy- because...

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Projecting onto you partner? Read this…

Projecting onto you partner? Read this…

Raise your hand if you’ve ever felt a fraction of “you don’t give me the love I need” or “you don’t allow me to feel free” in relationship… 😯 The feminine shadow can never have enough love, and that gets projected on ‘her’ partner. The masculine shadow...

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Moving from emasculation to empowerment

Moving from emasculation to empowerment

If you’re convincing yourself to stay in relationship because “you see his higher self” but you secretly keep trying to change multiple aspects of who he is and how he is showing up IN THE PRESENT MOMENT- you are in habitual and sneaky emasculation patterns and you...

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Longing, waiting, and letting it come

Longing, waiting, and letting it come

Longing is lifeblood. It’s the impulse to evolve, to integrate, to become more of who you are. Invitation to grow, to love deeper, to feel more full. But sometimes, you do the thing… You convince yourself that because you don’t have it currently (and...

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Say this to yourself before you orgasm

Say this to yourself before you orgasm

Orgasmic pleasure has the potential… 😏… to awaken your purpose or calling, to dismantle your programs of unworthiness, to allow the depth of love sourced from the wells of your own heart LAND in your body…. It has the potential to awaken YOUR...

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Want to feel desired? Here’s the key.

There is a question I ask myself often that opens me into red hot OWNERSHIP, wild proportions of ECSTASY, and truthful INTEGRITY to my work. It is a question that blasts out the illusion of blame and victimhood in all dimensions of my life. It is a question that...

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The Eroticism in Love

There was a time when love turned me off. If a partner looked at me with love while fucking me there was a part of my system that said – “Vanilla. Boring. Ew.” I needed power, darkness, and mystery to get aroused. And while the above is still delicious and fun...

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How Orgasmic Abundance was birthed

The story of how Orgasmic Abundance was birthed is here…. ✨💳🧚🏼🤍⚡️ The simple version: I was fed the fuck up.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I was sick of my story about how all these other women could have million dollar businesses...

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Becoming a magnet to your desire

The thing you desire… it desires you too 😚🍯✨🧚🏼 You legit wouldn’t have the desire if you weren’t meant to go on the JOURNEY to create the desire. Which is good news because it means you’re not crazy 😜 hehe I see...

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Feeling stuck with money? Read this.

Feeling stuck with money? You’re probably stuck with frequency. We live in a vibrational + energetic YOUniverse that is constantly responding to… you guessed it… you 😏🧚🏼✨ Your thoughts and beliefs. The currents moving...

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What it means to have a body-based business

I have a body-based business. What that means is that my physical body is the one whom literally decides all of the things.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ She decides how many badass chicas will be in my programs. She decides how many launches I can do in a month. She decides how my days...

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This is how you can get paid to be you

  He said – “What’s your business called?” I said – “It’s called Ashae Sundara. My business is me.” Shock. Wonder. Awe. “Your business is you?” Yep. Yep. Yep. Yep. Yep. 🥳 In fact THE MORE ME my business is… the more money I make. The...

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“Ashae, How can I pay you?!!?”

How to get your people from “You inspire me” to “Let me pay you” 💵💎 Omg I remember feeling soooooo annoyed when people would write “you inspire me”… however they weren’t willing to show up for themselves and invest when I opened the doors. It was...

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Your millionaire self isn’t on a budget

If your millionaire self isn’t on a budget…why are you? I’m about to let you in on a biggggg ol secret, babe. —> Your millionaire self is not rational. You heard me She’s not budgeting away, sitting inside her head going… “Can I afford that?” She’s...

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The secret behind a successful launch.

So you want to have a successful launch… 🥂✨👑 First of all, I promise you, it gets easier over time sparky. If you’re committed to having a successful launch, you will. When you keep listening, keep investing, and keep doing the inner work....

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Decide right now that you’ll have it.

Decide right now that you will have it. No other choice. No other reality. It’s yours. It’s really quite easy to make your dreams come true. But you have to have conviction. You have to KNOW it’s possible, it’s happening, and it’s already happened....

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Becoming a match for what you desire.

Becoming a match for what you desire comes in incremental steps. I remember in a course a few years ago, I was learning how to be in energetic alignment with becoming a millionaire. And I couldn’t do it. It felt too far away… Like a dream…...

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Leaning into resistance.

What if resistance was saying— “Wait until you’re fully aroused!”…? 😌🔥💦 Here’s the lie you’ve been told. “Resistance is bad!” Kill it. Move past it. Let go of it. Yes, we get to do these things. But the feminine way? BY LISTENING TO IT. I...

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Why you need to get knocked down sometimes.

When you choose to up-level, re-code your reality, and rise… you WILL get knocked down. You will have days where the only thing possible is… bed 🤭 You will feel weak and like perhaps something went wrong. You will fight the urge to be. You will...

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How I set intentions for business, sex and life.

An intention is an anchor. With practice, it can take you out of your mind and in to your heart. It can steer your day, your pu$$y, and your business in the direction that you please. And let’s be real: we all need anchoring. The mind will wander if we don’t catch it...

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You lustful feminine hoe… you want so much

Sister, do you ever feel like you WANT SO MUCH that maybe you’re just some crazy lustful feminine hoe?!!!?!! Omg. It feels really wild to say this and admit it but like… I want it all, and I’m not willing to settle for anything less. I want roaring orgasms that leave...

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Hustle vs. Feminine Flow in Business

Let me guess… Someone recently told you that you have to do business from your soft inner feminine. Am I right? And then……. The next person told you that you have to hustle and discipline yourself to make it work. Leaving you… –>...

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Do you actually want an online business?

Hi love, Yesterday I was contemplating how I got here. How I went from a girl graduating college obsessed with self care and awakening… to a badass business owner who serves thousands of people regularly. –> Yes, I’ve learned tons of practical...

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Manifesting is not passive

You can’t be “manifesting ways to make money” without consistently showing up and doing the thing that you know brings sales. 🤭🤯 #butreally this is mind boggling to me. To be telling yourself that “it’ll come it’ll come it’ll come” when you actually do...

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Get paid for your awakening.

You get to be paid for your awakening. You sitting over there in the corner like… “I need to be certified before I commit to my business”… I see you. And I am here to challenge you. Because yes, a training or a certification can help you learn and relax...

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Self sabotage or self care?

I woke up a zillion times last night in my sleep. Not fun. Not deep. And this morning, I noticed a little self sabotage pattern alive… The voice goes something like this- “Babe, you had such a hard night… just do nothing today. Don’t meditate. Don’t move...

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Confused about what to create?

Confused about what to create? The coaches the entrepreneurs the mentors the healers the artists I see them all coming online right now in a big, big, big way. If you’re one of those people Ashae, and anything like me… You are getting a big PING in your...

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the difference between resistance and intuition

the difference between resistance and intuition

Let’s talk about intuition. Resistance. Vs. A soul message telling you “not now.” I know they can get tricky and confusing. And you probably know by not showing up… and not doing the things.. and not feeling too freaking great about...

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A story from my helpless feminine

The power of feminine surrender… He asked me if we needed anything from the grocery store. At first, I went into my pattern. Thinking about what was in the fridge… Anxiously trying to pull something together… Trying to decide what I desired. And then...

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Mystery: The missing piece in union

You and your Lover are in trouble when the Mystery Dies… In the beginning, we’re all about it. We don’t know exactly who they are or what they do or where they go what they wear and eat and lick and fuck.. We have no idea. And that’s hot. We wait for a...

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Flirt him into his masculine power

Flirt him into his masculine power. (If you want to serve him and everyone he touches for the rest of his life, of course.) A scene: He says- “So do you want to maybe go get a drink with me?” It’s subtle but it’s not what you want. You- Sigh under the table while you...

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Letting Him Penetrate You

You have to consciously and intentionally open your yoni to really allow a man in. To penetrate you. To blast through your control. To open you wide to God. You can’t just lie there on the bed and let him in physically, expecting psychological and spiritual results....

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Rushing Toward Orgasm? Try this…

When one or both partners rush toward orgasm, you lose the chance for a surrendered tantric love fest… 🌸🔑 And it’s subtle. You can be sitting over there nodding your head like- “Yeah sister! No rushing!” But if you’re not intentionally aware of...

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Casual Sex???

The only casual sex I’ll be having is with a partner I’ve been with for months or years. Confused yet? 😉 Good. Let’s give your idea of casual sex a little makeover… To me – casual sex is like a “Hey, I only have 5 minutes come get on top of me...

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Your only job when triggered

✖️Your only goal when you’re triggered is to regulate yourself out of the trigger✖️ That’s it. It’s not up to your pro-active, personal-development, goal-oriented, fixer-mind to come in and save you. It’s not the perfect moment to talk and...

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Becoming a Bitter Bitch in Love

The bitter bitch. This criticizing, destructive, triggered, and emotionally abusive part of your lover archetype continues to exist because you keep opting in to a relationship dynamic that’s not a fuck yes. 🤯 Get this goodness: 👉🏼 There is...

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Do men want more sex than women?

It’s a complete lie that “men want sex more” than women. In fact, most women I know activated in their feminine + their sexual power… oh they want it so much more… Because the feminine is after fullness. And getting filled (literally and figuratively)...

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Physical Body Pain as an Entrepreneur

Physical body pain as an entrepreneur. let’s talk about it. like- getting all the things you want done, when your body is screaming, annoyed, and hurting. or- having your dreams and manifestations, but continually getting knocked down to rest, heal, or not go as fast....

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Do You Contract Upon Sexual Rejection?

you know you’re a self-love sexual ninja when you can face sexual rejection and be so. deeply. okay. —> because you don’t make a “no” mean something about you —> because you’ve been with yourself far too many times to take any form of rejection as a hit to your...

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Your Role When He Ejaculates Too Soon

ooooof, when he’s rushing to the finish line just as you’re getting started…when he ejaculates too soon… it has intense and lasting effects on your relationship.⠀⠀⠀ why?⠀ well, 👉🏼 not only does it tell your body + brain that he doesn’t...

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Your inner shit solved with more cash flow? Think again.

Cash flow is not Superman. It’s not going to miraculously swoop in from your current low vibe depressed way of being and clear the trauma, repressed desire, and unacted upon purpose that you’re sitting in now. It’s not going to somehow make you and your partner have a...

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Two Hot Tips for Receiving Oral

2 HOT tips for receiving oral…   1.Imagine you are drinking in his tongue…….. (This one is delectable.) Imagine your whole body drinking in his energy, his love, your connection, his desire for you, his arousal… Let yourself get filled up...

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Eros with Him starts in Eros with You.

Eros is what keeps passion alive. It’s the essence of love lit by the sound of excitement and play. It’s the wild nights up until sunrise because you can’t keep your hands off each other. Eros is butterflies in your belly, pinching yourself because your heart is so...

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When He Ejaculates + You Want More

What do you do when your partner ejaculates but you want more?….. Do you lay there in silence… reflecting on the victim hood to his now? Do you tell yourself “it’s fine I don’t really need pleasure anyways”? Do you fall asleep mad? Do you allow your...

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Lost Your Sexual Desire after Two Years Together?

Lost Your Sexual Desire after Two Years Together?

So you’ve lost your sexual desire in all your long term relationships? You’re not alone but you’re also gunna need to take care of this one….. now. And that’s an order from me!!!!! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Because it won’t change by just hopping to the next person… sorry… ⠀⠀⠀...

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Leaning into Love when it’s the Hardest

Leaning into Love when it’s the Hardest

When I say “leaning into love through the vulnerability of the moment” do you actually know what I mean? Do you know the sensation of your heart closing and then choosing to open instead? I’m trying to find a way to paint something for you that’s so easy and massively...

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Why I’m No Longer Using the Term “Higher Self”

Why I’m No Longer Using the Term “Higher Self”

I’m no longer using the term “higher self.” It doesn’t resonate. Here’s why: Every time I’d go to ask my higher self something, I’d look UP. Up, as in out of my body. Up, as in not here now. It felt inauthentic. Like I was reaching for an answer from a version of me...

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IF HE SAYS HE’S GUNNA DO IT, LET HIM F&$@ING DO IT!

IF HE SAYS HE’S GUNNA DO IT, LET HIM F&$@ING DO IT!

IF HE SAYS HE’S GUNNA DO IT, LET HIM F&$@ING DO IT! 👉🏼 Let’s say he tells you he’s going to run you a bath… The time comes and it hasn’t happened yet. Your expectations are loud. “Bath. Tonight. Where is it.” …Not leaving any room in...

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Wanting Love – Creating Separation

Wanting Love – Creating Separation

Angel… act from devotion to your present moment inner truth. Especially when it’s hard. Let me explain. – Yesterday I was talking to a client who’s noticing this pattern: When a need isn’t being met by her partner, instead of speaking up and sharing the...

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Do you have Leaky Sexual Energy?…

Do you have Leaky Sexual Energy?…

Let’s talk about Leaky Sexual Energy. Is there actual truth in this claim to be aware of ~ or ~ is it some fancy spiritual lingo covering up patriarchal repressive acts to keep us turned off and sexually blocked?… Yeah. Let’s go there. First of all, if you’re...

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My Foreplay Fantasy

I asked my Insta followers to share a foreplay fantasy they have. Most all of their answers were “go down between my legs until I beg you to be inside of me.” That’s YUM don’t get me wrong, However to me… that’s sex itself. Foreplay gets to happen outside of...

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What to do with a Mental Block During Sex

What to do with a Mental Block During Sex

If a mental block comes up during sex, I dare you to NAME IT OUT LOUD. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I did, this morning. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Our love making was sweet, beautiful, powerful, wet… ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ But as the pleasure deepened and I found myself getting close to a climax… a...

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Devotion Through Detachment: A Story

Devotion Through Detachment: A Story

Devotion through detachment… He said- “I’m detaching from you, I just want you to know.” I could feel sadness, defeat, and fear in his voice. Part of me wanted to reel him back in but the truth in me… knew. I responded- “You’re allowed to detach from me....

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How to Worship Cock Like a Goddess

How to Worship Cock Like a Goddess

Worship cock like a goddess… “Your cock worship has gone from like a 3 to a 10 this past year.” OKAY. WINNING. I always thought I was good. There was some skill. But I didn’t know the depth and capacity I could go. It wasn’t until I was with a partner who gave...

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Ins + Outs of Ascended Partnership

Ins + Outs of Ascended Partnership

A few weeks ago, a follower asked me what the difference is between an ascended partnership and a standard relationship. Im going to try and answer this question to the best of my ability based on what I am experiencing in my current relationship. (Which by the way,...

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A (short) post on sexual dogma.

A (short) post on sexual dogma.

On sexual dogma… I can’t only do cosmic tantric surrendered love making  and I can’t only do embodied kinky mindless fucking. I need both, based on my mood. And you’re allowed to, too… I knew this mentally of course,  as I am primarily an energetic +...

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Sexuality for Awakening 101: Self-Practice

Sexuality for Awakening 101: Self-Practice

Sexuality for Awakening… I want you to lovingly move away from thinking that sex + sexuality is for pleasure and pleasure alone. That’s just the surface, the tip of the ice. Your sexuality is for awakening. It’s for feeling comfortable in your skin....

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The Bedroom as a Microcosm

The bedroom is a microcosm. This is why sexuality interests me so damn much. It’s really not about sexuality at all.  Talking about how two bodies meet in physical desire would get boring after some time, after all.  What happens in the bedroom is really...

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This is for the Sensitive Souls {A Poem for Women}

This is for the Sensitive Souls {A Poem for Women}

  This is for the sensitive souls who feel it all. For the long processors, the bedtime criers, the ones who are blinded by the light. This is for the women who’ve had to learn the hard way that “no” is an act of respect. For the stomachs shaken by the sight of...

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Our Bondage {A Poem}

Our Bondage {A Poem}

Our bondage will be a devotional, erotic muse for the world. Our togetherness will be God meeting God. Our bondage will be cosmic. It will be energetic. Healing. Dirty. Sensual. Activated. Tantric. Other-worldly. In service to the divine. Our energy will be explosive...

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Please Stop Having Matrix Sex

Please Stop Having Matrix Sex

Please stop having matrix sex. Emotionless.  Lonely.  Back and forth back and forth. Unexpressed desires.  Energetics disregarded.  Magic within a leash. Throats blocked.  Hearts closed.  Hands stiff. Please stop using her body as a vessel and please stop using his as...

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Ditching Clitoral Orgasm for the Ecstatic Stuff

Ditching Clitoral Orgasm for the Ecstatic Stuff

They say that some women can ONLY have clitoral orgasm, and thats simply a L I E. Deeper orgasm is available to every woman willing to awaken the muscle of ecstasy, relaxation, and love. “Most women (apparently) can only have clitoral orgasm and that’s...

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Transforming Challenging Emotions Real Quick

Transforming Challenging Emotions Real Quick

When a challenging emotion hits- be it anxiety, sadness, lethargy, anger, fear, sick-of-having-human-body-ness, etc- it can be shocking to a system that has so much light.  You might get confused… like you’re doing all the “right” things,...

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The Diet for Dieters Sick of Dieting.

The Diet for Dieters Sick of Dieting.

If you’re anything like me or any of my clients, you’ve tried to control your food and your body’s weight and shape for years. To be honest… for good reasons. To heal your skin, or poop daily (ha!!!), or to get strong and in great shape! ...

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This is Your Permission to Create.

This is Your Permission to Create.

Somewhere along my journey called life I let myself believe that I needed more wisdom, a better degree, higher health, and xx xx xx to create art, healing, support, service, courses, and creations in the world. Relate?? Do you hold yourself back from producing...

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